One of my resolutions for 2017 was to do more traveling. At the beginning of each month, I check in on my resolutions list to see how I'm progressing toward my goals, and I realized this month that I haven't touched my traveling goal at all. I can safely say that traveling is our favorite family activity (yes, even with a toddler). We love seeking out adventures, experiencing new places together, and showing our enthusiastic little one this big, wide world. So why have we been in such a rut these past few months?
Whenever we discuss travel plans, there always seem to be the same road blocks that come up over and over again. Money is one of them. Vacation time is another. When we put our mind to it, we do a decent job mitigating these things by taking weekend road trips. We don't mind driving and we don't mind staying in cheap hotels (as long as they are safe and clean), which gives us plenty of options for affordable weekend adventures. Yet this year we've barely managed to scrape ourselves out of our neighborhood to take a single day trip to the beach. Laaaaaaaame. So what's been the hold up? It finally dawned on my this past weekend....
Last Friday, I sent a text to Brandon in the morning telling him that I really wanted to get out of town to clear my mind after a hectic week. Like the awesome husband he is, he booked us a surprise weekend trip and had everything packed and ready to go by the time I got home on Friday night. We ended spending the weekend in Newport, which is a beach town about 3 hours from where we live. On our way down, I asked Brandon what the weather was supposed to be like over the weekend, and his answer surprised me: "I don't know, I didn't look." In my type-A brain, alarms and red flags were shooting up all over the place. What if it rained the whole time? What if we didn't get even get to play on the beach? How could he have adequately prepared not even knowing what to expect of the weather?
Well it turns out, the weather SUCKED. The whole time. It was rainy, windy, and really cold. It even hailed, and then snowed for a bit. But guess what - we had an awesome time anyway.
I realized quickly that one of the big reasons I'd been putting off travel plans was because of the weather. Oregon weather in the winter and early spring months is nothing to write home about. 95% rain, 4% hail, and a 1% (slight chance) of sun. Since we tend spend a lot of time outdoors wherever we go, I think that in my subconscious mind I was avoiding the possibility of going somewhere and not being able to do anything fun because of the weather. But Brandon's laid back attitude showed me different. We are not the kind of family that shies away from bad weather. We pack our rain boots and nerdy rain pants and outside we go. Moral of the story - I'm going to try reeeaaally hard to not even look at the weather forecast when we think of planning a weekend trip somewhere from now on.
I’m Betty and I live in the beautiful pacific northwest. I'm a mommy. Vegetarian. Wife to a meatatarian. Pediatric physical therapist. Outdoor enthusiast. Enjoyer of fitness/healthy living. Even bigger enjoyer wine and chocolate lava cake. And hoping to find some balance between it all.